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Dismantling Dick Duty™ &
Provider Duty™ Habits
Revamp Your Relationships
Think It's Too Late to Save Your Relationship?
When the answer to "Should I stay or should I go?" isn't clear, take time to find yourself first.
Nature's 4-Step Revamp Program will help clear your autopilot patterns that keep you disconnected from your true self, with the gentleness of flower essences, freeing you to attend to your relationship difficulties with compassion rather than avoidance.
The decision to stay or go will become clearer and it will come from your heart's desire to live a joyful life.
Think It's Too Late to Save Your Relationship?
When the answer to "Should I stay or should I go?" isn't clear, take time to
find yourself first.
Nature's 4-Step Revamp Program will help clear your autopilot patterns that keep you disconnected from your true self,
freeing you to attend to your relationship difficulties with compassion rather than avoidance.
The decision to stay or go will become clearer and it will come from
your heart's desire to live a joyful life.
Feeling Lost After a Breakup?
Stuck in a Safe-Sex Marriage™ or Forever Fiancé™ Loop?
Let's Break Down Who's Showing Up
What did you lead with in the beginning of your relationship?
Your ability to make and manage money?
Keeping a clean home?
The real question is,
did you masquerade to impress?
Fake it 'til you make it never works in intimate relationships. If you led with a false sense of who you are, you will likely develop resentment from not feeling safe to express your true likes and dislikes.
Long-term masquerading leads to avoidant decisions...choices made to avoid conflict, guilt, or more disappointment. These choices are not dopamine-rewarding,
Long-term masquerading leads to avoidant decisions...choices made to avoid conflict, guilt, or more disappointment. These choices are not dopamine-rewarding, they are stress-inducing.
they are stress-inducing.
Realigning with Your Core Values is the Solution
Whether you're trying to mend a broken or failing relationship or have made the decision to call it quits,
Whether you're trying to mend a broken or failing relationship or have made the decision to call it quits, Nature’s 4-Step Revamp Program helps you break free from your habits that leave you feeling unseen, unheard, unappreciated, and disconnected.
Nature’s 4-Step Revamp Program helps you break free from your habits that leave you feeling
unseen, unheard, unappreciated, and disconnected.
Our blends combine the logic of Thought Etiquette™ with the gentle healing of custom flower essences
Our blends combine the logic of Thought Etiquette™ with the gentle healing of custom flower essences to help you reconnect with yourself, so you can create healthy connections with others.
to help you reconnect with yourself, so you can create healthy connections with others.
Realigning with Your Core Values is the Solution
Whether you're trying to mend a broken or failing relationship or have made the decision to call it quits,
Whether you're trying to mend a broken or failing relationship or have made the decision to call it quits, Nature’s 4-Step Revamp Program helps you break free from your habits that leave you feeling unseen, unheard, unappreciated, and disconnected.
Nature’s 4-Step Revamp Program helps you break free from your habits that leave you feeling
unseen, unheard, unappreciated, and disconnected.
Our blends combine the logic of Thought Etiquette™ with the gentle healing of custom flower essences
Our blends combine the logic of Thought Etiquette™ with the gentle healing of custom flower essences to help you reconnect with yourself, so you can create healthy connections with others.
to help you reconnect with yourself, so you can create healthy connections with others.
Find Yourself First
Everything else will fall into place from there.
We've worked with people who were completely stuck in autopilot routines, disconnected from themselves and their partners.
Whether they stayed together with their partner
Whether they stayed together with their partner or not was no longer their focus, because they fell in love with...
or not was no longer their focus, because they fell in love with...
living their lives. 🩷
Find Yourself First
Everything else will fall into place from there.
We've worked with people who were completely stuck in autopilot routines, disconnected from themselves and their partners.
Whether they stayed together with their partner
Whether they stayed together with their partner or not was no longer their focus, because they fell in love with...
or not was no longer their focus, because they fell in love with...
living their lives. 🩷
The Heart of Nature's 4-Step Revamp Program
Notice when you do something out of habit that isn’t what you truly want to do.
Understand why you react the way you do to change your patterns to match your core values.
Move forward from your core values, not from fear, habit, or indecision.
Being mindfully present with yourself leads to more moments you love.
Our Custom Blended Flower Essences are Holistic Wellness Products
Crafted to help you resolve the emotional blocks that keep you playing a role,
so you can reconnect with yourself, which naturally supports more loving connections with others.
Benefits of
Nature's 4-Step
Revamp Program
🩷 Emotional Clarity
Recognize the thoughts and feelings that keep you stuck.
🩷 Deeper Connections
Whether with yourself or a partner, learn to connect in real, meaningful ways.
🩷 Gentle Emotional Support
Custom flower essences soothe emotional discomfort while shifting out of autopilot.
🩷 Optional Coaching
Work with a certified coach for personalized insight and support.
Nature's 4-Step Revamp Program
Four flower essence blends, one for each stage of your reconnection,
Four flower essence blends, one for each stage of your reconnection, each formulated around a Thought Etiquette™ goal, will be custom blended for you.
each formulated around a Thought Etiquette™ goal, will be custom blended for you.
Free shipping on every order.
CHOOSE YOUR LEVEL OF SUPPORT
Do-it-yourself-$297
For independent learners and journalers
4 Custom Blends
Use at your own pace
No calls or emails needed
email Coaching Support-$525
Guidance without scheduling calls for self-reflectors
Everything in Do-It-Yourself
Up to 12 personal support emails
Covers an 8-week period
Video Call coaching support-$997
Structured, one-on-one support through the full shift
Everything in Do-It-Yourself
Up to 8 personal video calls (45-minutes)
Covers an 8-week period
Revamp Your Relationships
Key Concepts Explained
Dick Duty™
A routine relationship pattern where intimacy become transactional rather than genuine, often driven by expectations or obligations, leading to boredom and a lack of true connection.
Provider Duty™
A relationship dynamic where one partner shifts from lovingly and capably providing to begrudgingly obliging—or withholding, leading to resentment, burnout, and the loss of genuine caring.
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Safe-Sex Marriage™
Prioritizing social expectations and financial security over maintaining a loving connection. Sex becomes a routine obligation, much like doing the dishes or taking out the garbage.
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Safe-Sex Relationship™
A relationship where appearances and social norms take priority and emotional connection, deep engagement, and real intimacy never materialize. You're a step away from Forever fiancé™.
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Forever Fiancé™
Partners 'put a ring on it' to keep the hope of marriage alive and to keep each other off the market. You look and act like a couple. The long-term plan becomes staying in emotional limbo until someone or something better comes along.
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Thought Etiquette™
A practice of evaluating and refining your thoughts to ensure they align with your core values to eliminate negative or unproductive thoughts for a healthier mindset, and conscious living.
Custom Blended Flower Essence for Bettering Yourself, Naturally
Flower essences (e.g. Bach Flower Essences) naturally promote feeling calm.
Every order is custom blended for your holistic wellness needs.
Revamp Your Relationships creates custom flower essence blends to help you resolve emotional blocks, shift out of autopilot habits, and reconnect with your core values, naturally.
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The statements made regarding custom essence blends have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Although the ingredients in Revamp Your Relationships’ products are generally regarded as safe, you are encouraged to consult your healthcare professional before using any product, especially if you are being treated for any physical or mental health condition, or are pregnant or nursing.
Custom Blended Flower Essence for Bettering Yourself, Naturally
Flower essences (e.g. Bach Flower Essences) are a natural remedies for supporting behavior changes.
The statements made regarding custom essence blends have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Although the ingredients in Revamp Your Relationships’ products are generally regarded as safe, you are encouraged to consult your healthcare professional before using any product, especially if you are being treated for any physical or mental health condition, or are pregnant or nursing.
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