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From Fireworks to Flatline:
Why We Fall Out of Love
combining the power of Thought Etiquette™ with the gentleness of flower essences to support Revamping Your Relationships
Dismantling Dick Duty™ &
Provider Duty™ Habits
Revamp Your Relationships
From Fireworks to Flatline...
Why We Fall Out of Love
As relationships evolve, our hormones change, which changes the nature of our connection.
These natural changes are not all your fault!
The Hormone Phases of Relationships
Romantic
New and Exciting = Dopamine
Active Hormones
Dopamine = the thrill, anticipation, novelty
Testosterone/Estrogen = sexual attraction
Oxytocin = bonding, cuddling, intimacy
Emotional Tone
Passionate
Exciting
All-consuming
Brain State
Reward-seeking
Craving
Energized
Typically Lasts:
6-18 months
Moving In Together
Building Comfort and Committment = Oxytocin
Active Hormones
Oxytocin = bonding and trust
Vasopressin = commitment and territorial behavior
Serotonin – stability and emotional regulation
Emotional Tone
Secure
Predictable
Calm
Brain State
Regulated
Consistent
Less intense
Typically Lasts:
1-3 years
Gotta Make the Money
Work and Living Routine = Serotonin and Cortisol
Active Hormones
Serotonin = emotional regulation, routine, and social harmony
Cortisol = stress, urgency, and overload
Norepinephrine – alertness, focus, and task execution
Emotional Tone
Functional
Efficient
Flat or Tense
Brain State
Overloaded
Reactive
Task-oriented
Typically Lasts:
3+ years
From Puppy Love to Partnership
The early phase of love is a lot like getting a puppy.
It's all sparkly eyes and cuddles at first, every little thing they do feels adorable.
You know there will be messes, but your heart's too full to care.
Oxytocin's at work, building a bond of love and trust, naturally.
As the novelty wears off and the "puppy" grows, the same behavior that once made you laugh starts to feel frustrating. You expect more maturity. More cooperation. Less chewing on the furniture.
What most people don’t realize is...
relationships follow the same growth pattern.
You’re not falling out of love,
you’re being invited to grow into a deeper, more grounded bond. One that takes more intention, and will give more back in return.
And here’s the kicker: for the relationship to truly grow, both partners have to stop acting like puppies.
When one partner remains in "puppy mode," the responsibility of maintaining the household's structure and stability tends to shift, activating Provider Duty™ in the other.
It’s not sustainable.
And it’s repairable, with Thought Etiquette™ and custom blended essences.
Protect Your Bond with Clear Intentions
Stress happens.
When you keep your thoughts and intentions clear, especially during tense or reactive moments, you prevent cortisol from taking the wheel.
With awareness and conscious choice, you can create space for serotonin to steady you and for oxytocin to continue weaving trust and connection.
It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about staying present and choosing to align with your core values.
It’s sustainable.
Typically lasts:
from year one...to forever
Let Us Help You Re-Align with Your Core Values
There can be a lot of uncomfortable emotions involved when you're
aligning with your true self.
This is where our tools, Thought Etiquette™ and the 4-Step Revamp Program come in.
With Thought Etiquette™, you will learn to observe the inner thoughts driving your actions, and gently bring them into alignment with your core values, and rediscover the love, curiosity, and connection that keeps you fulfilled.
Our custom-blended flower essences will support your emotional balance, this approach helps you start from where you are with an eye to where you are going. No need to rehash the past.
Nature's 4-Step Revamp Program
Four flower essence blends, one for each stage of your reconnection,
Four flower essence blends, one for each stage of your reconnection, each formulated around a Thought Etiquette™ goal, will be custom blended for you.
each formulated around a Thought Etiquette™ goal, will be custom blended for you.
Free shipping on every order.
CHOOSE YOUR LEVEL OF SUPPORT
Do-it-yourself-$297
For independent learners and journalers
4 Custom Blends
Use at your own pace
No calls or emails needed
email Coaching Support-$525
Guidance without scheduling calls for self-reflectors
Everything in Do-It-Yourself
Up to 12 personal support emails
Covers an 8-week period
Video Call coaching support-$997
Structured, one-on-one support through the full shift
Everything in Do-It-Yourself
Up to 8 personal video calls (45-minutes)
Covers an 8-week period
Shared experiences with Revamp Your Relationship..
Individuals often aren't aware of how much they've numbed out until working through the 4-Step Program. The flower essences have helped clients stay calm while facing hard truths about how unhealthy habits developed. Thought Etiquette™ has given individuals the tools to shift their inner narrative. It isn't always easy, but many describe it as coming home to themselves, with their attitude toward their relationship softening as a result.
Individual results vary.
Still figuring out where you stand?
That's what the program is for.
Our program explores how neurotransmitters (hormones) influence emotional connection, intimacy, and even the habit of going through the motions.
The changes in yourself and your partner are real. And, they are
NOT YOUR FAULT!
Custom Blended Flower Essence for Bettering Yourself, Naturally
Flower essences (e.g. Bach Flower Essences) naturally promote feeling calm.
Every order is custom blended for your holistic wellness needs.
Revamp Your Relationships creates custom flower essence blends to help you resolve emotional blocks, shift out of autopilot habits, and reconnect with your core values, naturally.
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The statements made regarding custom essence blends have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Although the ingredients in Revamp Your Relationships’ products are generally regarded as safe, you are encouraged to consult your healthcare professional before using any product, especially if you are being treated for any physical or mental health condition, or are pregnant or nursing.
Custom Blended Flower Essence for Bettering Yourself, Naturally
Flower essences (e.g. Bach Flower Essences) are a natural remedies for supporting behavior changes.
The statements made regarding custom essence blends have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Although the ingredients in Revamp Your Relationships’ products are generally regarded as safe, you are encouraged to consult your healthcare professional before using any product, especially if you are being treated for any physical or mental health condition, or are pregnant or nursing.
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